I see. I suppose you're a little bit like me... You are remembered for the rules you break. If you obey all the rules you miss all the fun. The golden rule is that there are no golden rules. Learn the rules like a pro, so you can break them like an artist. Know the rules well, so you can break them effectively. You don't learn to walk by following rules. You learn by doing, and by falling over. Any fool can make a rule, and any fool will mind it.